Managing Your Chaos
Do you ever feel that if you were to fully be all of who you are, you would be fully and totally rejected. People would look at you differently, like you less, and judge you even more harshly?
We all have parts of ourselves that we try to silence, avoid or judge harshly.
For as long as I can remember, I wanted to fit in- with all the pretty polished, sure of themselves girls. I wanted to be popular, and for people to like me and want to be my friend.
Be normal.
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Do you ever feel that if you were to fully be all of who you are, you would be fully and totally rejected. People would look at you differently, like you less, and judge you even more harshly?
We all have parts of ourselves that we try to silence, avoid or judge harshly.
For as long as I can remember, I wanted to fit in- with all the pretty polished, sure of themselves girls. I wanted to be popular, and for people to like me and want to be my friend.
Be normal.
Last year, was a year of A LOT of change… I lived out of a suitcase for the entire year and was separated from my children and husband for half of it. My life was in constant flow, and changed many times in a moment.
One of my children, was so scandalized with the upheaval, and change happening in our lives- and asked the question, “Why aren’t you normal? Why can’t our family just be normal? With parents that work normal, stable jobs and things aren’t always changing?”
It hurt… more than I like to admit. One of my children had just addressed my deepest fear- that other people could sense the chaos that I felt like I was always trying to hide.
After a couple weeks of marinating on why his response hurt so much, I realized I could accept his criticisms as hurtful or I could accept I am who I am.
For as long as I can remember, my life has been a state of chaos… and I like it.
I like the chaos.
Sometimes it can get overwhelming, but I handle it.
Business owners, entrepreneurs and the self employed can probably relate to loving the chaos. It’s in our nature.
The draw of the chaos, solving problems, helping others, is something that is comforting- even if you choose not to admit it. Being in the flow of life and your decisions. Being who you really are and ok with it.
It’s a journey of self acceptance and self love.
Part of what makes you awesome is your ability to deal with chaos. When you take action, massive action, consistent daily action to move things forward- the universe will push against you, asking you how bad you want what you say you want. You deal with the pushback, the failures, the fall- downs, and keep pushing forward.
Where other people would look at the chaos and stop, turn around, go back to what they know- we lean forward, look the chaos in the eye and ask for more.
I once read a quote that was something along the lines of
Some women are consumed by the fire, others are refined by the fire.
Stepping into the chaos of starting a business, getting it off the ground, and growing it into something is a daily battle- and for some of us, it’s the battle we stake our lives on.
It’s not easy.
It’s not even as close to as glamorous as it looks on social media.
It’s a lifetime of learning to dance with the chaos.
Let me know in the comments if you have ever felt the same way I have about your own chaos?
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